"One does not discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time."
- André Gide
Friday, December 25, 2020
Distilled Spirits
Tuesday, December 1, 2020
Serendipity
Judy. For the past few weeks, we've been extra careful about seeing friends and family. We're ordering groceries and Christmas gifts online (local, as much as possible), and only see family for brief times, outside, and masked. We typically only go out if it's to the doctor or to Ted's physical therapy. Dear friends who want to meet understand that we're hesitant since the Covid numbers are spiking again.
Today we ventured to Lawrenceville, about an hour away, for regular doctor checkups. Ted was in and out quickly, but for some reason I had to wait a half hour after he was finished before I was done. And I was ticked.
Now, when you go to Lawrenceville, you do not miss the Grand Polish Cafe and Bakery. The bread is fresh and delicious, and the pastries, mouth-watering. PLUS, it's THE place to find good kielbasa, pirogies, and other Polish marvels. So, while I sulked, Ted pulled into the parking lot at the Bakery and left me in Raymond while he went in to load up our pantry.
I was busy knitting and finishing my coffee when a blue truck pulled up next to us and a masked guy stared right at me. Great. All I needed was some nut case fussing at me for not having a mask on in my own car. The guy rolled down his window and yells, "Come here often?" and pulls off his mask--and there is one of our dearest friends and favorite Polish Americans, Bob.
Bob was our son's Boy Scout leader for years. Stefan, by the way, is an Eagle, one of many Bob has mentored over the years. He's tough as nails, but I've watched him cry with pride as he saw his Scouts' accomplishments. There is no doubt in my mind that Stef is the man he is today in large part because Bob is part of the village that raised him. Bob saw past the earring, the oversized Scout uniform (that sagged quite nicely, thank you), and the long hair to the hard-working, caring boy Stef was, and has stood up for him several times when derisive comments were made.
He's been a friend for years (I taught his oldest son, too). We argue politics, but can see past that to who we are. We used to get together, but with our nomadic lifestyle and his and his beautiful wife Margaret's move to a suburb far outside Atlanta, we've contented ourselves with occasional emails and texts.
So when I spotted his big grin, it was all I could do not to jump out of the truck and give him a hug. Seems he, too, had a doctor's appointment and couldn't leave town without Polish goods.
Together, unmasked, for the 5 seconds it took Ted to take the photo! |
When Ted came out, we all decided to get a coffee--outside in thirty-degree weather to get caught up. Margaret works in a hospital, so the two of them also quarantine, and spent Thanksgiving outside with a few family members.
We talked about how much we miss travel, and mentioned meeting up somewhere when the pandemic settles. All too soon, the cold and time caught up with us and we said goodbye.
Now, I don't want to get all mystical on y'all, but if the doctor hadn't been behind, we'd have been to the bakery and gone before Bob even got there. We'd have missed out on one of our favorite people. I hear stories about folks who miss an accident because of a delay, or the people who weren't at the Twin Towers on 9/11 because they missed their train. I don't want to say this is anything like that. But I'm definitely going to take a second breath when I get hung up somewhere next time. Who knows what surprise might be waiting?
Monday, November 23, 2020
Fall in Athens
Judy. So here we are back in Athens. It's been almost three weeks, and we've pretty much settled in. In fact, for the last couple of weeks, we've gone into a type of quarantine in preparation for what we hope will be an outdoor tailgate Thanksgiving with our families.
I don't have to tell you that numbers of sick folks are going up all over the world. Here in Georgia, so far they've remained pretty low, but we'd like to keep it that way til this promised vaccine is available. Caed (grandson number two) is thankfully back at in-person school, and is thrilled to be near friends again. Because of his parents' schedules, Ted picks him up from school every afternoon--but this time it looks different.
Both wear their masks, and Caed hops in the back seat of Raymond the truck. No physical contact is made, and as soon as they arrive at home, Caed runs upstairs to shower and do his homework in his room, while Ted waits downstairs for Leslie to come back from her school. It's not what we had envisioned, but at our age, we just can't take chances on catching the virus.
So, when Thanksgiving arrives this week, along with Stefan, Sarah, and their boys, we'll keep our distance, desperately wanting to hug everyone, but trying to be here for Christmas. And New Year's. And birthdays.
Still, we can see them, and that's worth everything.
Thank goodness for Zoom and FaceTime and other ways of getting together. We've had several Zoom cocktail parties with dear friends, and continue to meet our Bible study groups via Zoom. My Bible study group is planning a Zoom Christmas tea, and sent out gifts and cards to all of us in preparation. These meetings lift our spirits more than we can say.
Another source of delight are the birds that gather around the two birdbaths in the yard. There's a robin who's been here since last spring, and who doesn't even fly
away when we enter the yard. He looks like a little butler, carefully watching the behavior of the finches, doves, and jays that gather. I've named him Cedric.The fall has been mild, and a large camilla bush in our yard is loaded with deep pink and white blossoms. The Japanese maple has turned a brilliant red, and the hydrangea blossoms dried on the bush, making it look lush even now.
We still walk the neighborhood and hike nearby when we can. Like in Montana, we seldom see anyone on these walks, and those we do keep as far from us as we do from them.
There's so much to be thankful for, in spite of this stupid quarantine. We have a warm, comfortable home, groceries we can pick up curbside, a beautiful yard, friends we meet online, and family, safe at a distance.
It may not be heaven, but I can see it from here.
Thursday, October 29, 2020
St. Simons Island
Judy. As much as I love being in the mountains, my heart always longs for the beach. We've spent time at several beaches around the world, and a plan had been to spend three months in Malaga, Spain, but obviously that didn't happen, so Ted located a townhouse on St. Simons Island, which is part of Georgia's "Golden Isles," just off the Atlantic coast. We'd spent time there years ago, and weather looked good for October, so we went for it.
Sunrise |
A container ship glides by the beach |
It has been a joy. While I can spend hours reading on a beach, Ted is more interested in history and nature. St. Simons fit both of those categories. We usually walk on the beach in the morning, but a few times have wandered to historic spots like the Bloody Marsh monument. Our front windows look out on the marsh, where we can watch ibis, herons, marsh hens and kingfishers. Five minutes out the back door takes us through the sea oats to the wide beach, where the Tricolor Heron, a new bird for me, searches for food in the tide pools and pelicans, sandpipers, plovers, and seagulls patrol the ocean for their favorite morsels. Ships sail by periodically--mostly container ships--and on days when the ocean is fierce, dolphins patrol for food.
Savannah, Georgia, established in 1733, was the first settlement on the mainland, but Fort Frederica was built three years later on the north part of St Simons island to defend the area from the Spanish. An entire town grew up, populated by English debtors and their families as a way to avoid prison. After the Battle of Bloody Marsh, the town wasn't necessary any more, and by 1748, it was abandoned.
Reconstructed Armory at Ft. Frederica |
Wesley garden |
Everywhere are live oaks, dripping with Spanish moss. The entrance to Sea Island Golf Club hosts the Avenue of Oaks, once the entrance to a plantation. Avenue of Oaks
Leslie and Caed found a Tree Spirit! |
Seven of the thousands of oaks are carved with "Tree Spirits," and searching for them is a great way to spend an afternoon.
The iconic lighthouse, built in 1872 to replace an earlier one, still flashes its light at night, warning ships coming through the sound.
Meanwhile, history is being made here, as a year ago, a cargo ship filled with cars wrecked off the sound between Jekyll Island and St. Simons, and has remained an eyesore while engineers determine how to get it out. This week, early one morning, a giant structure arrived with a massive saw to cut the wreck into pieces. A huge net will catch the cars as they tumble out. Sounds like science fiction, and the entire island seemed to be out lining the shore and the pier of the village to watch.
A giant crane is moved into place to cut up the shipwreck |
Our townhouse has three floors and three bedrooms, so our daughter Leslie and her family came for a few days. Most of those days were spent on the beach, but Leslie, our grandson Caed, and I went on a scavenger hunt for the Tree Spirits. Her husband Daniel cooked up shrimp feasts for us, and one morning Ted took Caed to a "flotsam and jetsam tree" down the beach to hang a toy car we found buried in the sand. Other times, Daniel and Caed practically lived in the surf!
Adding to the flotsam and jetsam tree |
In just a few days we'll be back in Athens for a three-month--or possibly more--stint. Urban walks will replace our Western hikes and Southern beach walks. That's just fine. Being close to family is as much a treat as travel. But we sure have had fun.
A foggy morning on the beach |
Monday, October 19, 2020
The Bloody Marsh
A monument stands at "the Bloody Marsh" where the final action took place. It bears a quote from James Olgethorpe, founder of the colony of Georgia:
Friday, October 16, 2020
Only 1,700 miles to go
The Missouri River at Chamberlain, SD |
While the river still flowed another 700 miles to it’s destination; the Mississippi River, we had 1,700 miles yet to drive to our goal; St. Simons Island on the coast of Georgia.
Tuesday, October 13, 2020
Coffee Culture
Judy. There are a lot of things I miss about the West. Certainly the hiking, the views, the lack of humidity, the wonderful people. But there's another thing I'd give almost anything to have here in the South: coffee shacks.
Drive by any parking lot--I mean ANY parking lot--and there's a tiny house, usually with windows on either side, and one barista inside making all kinds of coffee drinks and smoothies. These (usually) women are invariably pleasant, greet with a smile and a, "What can I get you folks today?" Sometimes you'll hear an "I'm gonna close this window to keep it cool, but I'll be right back," then she quickly and efficiently pops the window back open to deliver your order. Oh, my goodness, it makes getting a coffee easy! It definitely feeds my afternoon coffee addiction. No big box stores, although Florence Coffee seems to be the Starbucks of coffee shacks.
They are tremendously popular; sometimes the lines around the shack seems as long as any Chick-fil-A at noon, but if you're lucky, the line won't be so long, and even if it is, there's another shack a block down the street. The coffee drinks are invariably good. The barista often asks how may shots I want in my latte (big mistake one afternoon when I went for her suggestion of three). The prices are better, too; maybe having a smaller "shop" makes that possible.
Washington State seems to be the champion. Years ago I took photos of them everywhere we went. My favorite was "CAR WASH and ESPRESSO".
Still, Montana is no slacker. In these times of quarantine, it was a great way to pick up an afternoon coffee. In fact, Ted and I wondered why they're not here in the South. Does no one want to work there? Is the real estate too high?
Who knows. But Midwesterners and Southerners, you have no idea what you're missing.
Saturday, October 10, 2020
The legacy of Scotty Philip
Tuesday, October 6, 2020
Dignity
Judy. In a rest stop off I-90 outside Chamberlain, South Dakota stands a 50-foot stainless steel sculpture of a Native American woman. Sculpted by Dale Lamphere, she is representative of the Dakota and Lakota people , and she overlooks the Missouri River. She carries a star quilt, created by Lakota artist David Claymore, which in Native life represents admiration, honor, and strength. Coming down I-90, Dignity is impressive from either direction, with the blue stars of the quilt shining in the sun, but when you pull into the rest stop itself, her face and the movement of her body are almost overwhelming.
Dignity: of Earth and Sky |
We visited Dignity: of Earth and Sky after a morning on Rosebud Reservation, home of Lakota Sioux. Years ago, our dear friend Nancee, an Episcopal seminarian, served a summer with Lauren, priest-in-charge on the reservation. From that summer came an idea of sending handmade and store-bought hats, mittens, and scarves to the children there. Lauren and I had emailed over the years, but I'd never met her, so I didn't want to pass up this opportunity.
"Mama L's" car |
We met Lauren at the Subway in Mission, SD. She was wearing a t-shirt that read "I will use my breath to speak for those who can't breathe," and a mask with a red handprint over her mouth. This woman is about the business of speaking for the downtrodden. Her head is shaved, and she has an arm full of tattoos. She is beautiful.
Lauren and Ted |
After picking up lunch (and watching Lauren greet friends, checking up on family members), we followed her to the Bishop Hare Center and St. James church, the second oldest on the reservation. We sat outside at a picnic table and ate our lunch, while she told us about some of the work there.
She does a daily Compline service online, and on Sundays, members of her eight churches can worship via Facebook. One of the congregations holds outside services every Sunday. In addition, there are the funerals, four of which have been for Covid victims. She herself had the virus last spring, and is now a long-hauler, dealing with a low white blood count. She had, when we spoke, finally gotten a vacation to rest and recover.
Well, sort of. Behind us was a building being refurbished as a quarantine barracks for those with Covid. (There were, of course, no mission teams or seminarians this summer, due to the virus.) The church building remains shuttered, but she answered the phone a couple of times to deal with issues for her parishioners.
Wood barn & The Beast |
And then the Beast arrived. The Beast is an old, beat-up pickup. Three Guys sat in the cab; the back was filled with wood. We followed it around the corner to the wood barn, built of old telephone poles, pallets, and tin. (No one else could figure out how to build one, but she and her Guys did!) Inside, an Army veteran used a splitter to split firewood for the tribe. Outside, Danny, Mato, and Bruce, the aforementioned three Guys, tossed the cut wood onto the ground, ready to be split.
The Beast and The Guys |
Splitting the wood |
Most Tribal members heat their homes with wood stoves, so a firewood ministry was started. When she and another pastor passed a fallen tree, some years ago, he joked that she should start giving out firewood. She took him up on it. Last year 80+ full cords were delivered to homes. This year it'll be 120+. The Tribal Council has firewood to give out, but people have to come get it. This firewood is delivered. The IRS doesn't allow the Guys to get paid, so daily they get minimal cash for gas, all the cigarettes they want, and Gatorade--or Red Bull.
A new Beast is needed, but the government grants don't consider the need for a truck to deliver firewood to people staying home to avoid Covid as an actual Covid need. So donations are welcome.
It was time to go. Lauren had more work to do, and we had miles to drive to our next hotel. She gave us the best directions to get to the statue of Dignity, and waved us off. We listened to music from Indigenous people all the way to the interstate.
With the real Dignity in front of St. James church |
We saw the magnificent statue, and were touched by it. But I had already seen Dignity. She serves on Rosebud Reservation.
Monday, October 5, 2020
The Dakotas' National Parks
We then wandered the beautiful buttes, cliffs and ravines, enjoying the splashes of orange and yellow that fall foliage provided.
At one point, we saw an animal that we have never seen before; a wild horse. The park rangers refer to them as feral horses but I find that adjective offensive unless it is applied to cats or hogs.
Friday, October 2, 2020
So long, Montana
Ted. About 40 miles east of Glendive, Montana we crossed the border into North Dakota. I have to admit to touch of sadness even though I was excited about visiting Theodore Roosevelt National Park. Over the past two summers we have learned to love the Treasure State and don't frankly know when we will return. Ideally we will be allowed to leave the US next summer and will put a return to Montana on the back burner.
While wintering back in Georgia I will be consoled by wading through my birthday present from Judy; a massive anthology of Montana stories titled The Last Best Place. And on occasion, I may even watch this YouTube video of "Wild Montana Skies" by John Denver with the lovely harmonizing of Emmylou Harris:
Monday, September 28, 2020
Helena
Russell Christmas Card |
Allison and Stephen, two of the coolest folks you'll meet |
Beetle kill on Continental Divide Trail |