"One does not discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time."
- André Gide
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
Olden, Norway
Monday, July 28, 2025
Skjolden, Norway
Friday, July 25, 2025
Independence of the Seas
Judy. This is the first time Ted and I have taken such a short (7-day) cruise, leaving and returning to the same port. I'm not sure if that and the Norwegian fjord destination have affected what I've seen here, but I have several observations.
First of all, I've never seen so many families on a cruise, and it's really quite lovely to see parents and grandparents sharing time with their children. Of course the ship has many activities for the kids, and several toddlers have shown me the pictures they've colored. Meals are beautiful things, with large groups laughing together. Of course, there's the occasional tweener dashing around without looking to see who else is nearby, or shoes flying in hallway battles, but for the most part it's been delightful.
When we boarded, we saw several people in orange shirts that read "Royal Caribbean Autistic Cruise Staff," and have been pleased to see people on the spectrum both with their families, or being cared for by this staff. There are those who are afraid of anyone different, and it makes me so very happy to see folks who are sometimes shunned welcomed, at dinner, at the pool, and on the dance floor. Just now I passed a "private event"--all the families and the staff were having a party.
And the diversity on this ship! We've heard every language you can imagine, and seen cruisers wearing everything from the shortest of short shorts to Muslim women in full hijab or even a burka. Everybody seems to respect everybody in this delicious microcosm of the world.
We're used to repositioning cruises of twelve days or more, during which time we get to know our waiters and room stewards pretty well. I was surprised to find that seven days is still enough time for them to remember our preferences. The first night in the restaurant, Ted told Kiran that he didn't eat sweets, and would prefer fruit for dessert. Every night, a lovely fruit plate is ready for him, and, since I nibbled off his plate the first evening, he started bringing me one as well. And of course, we've seen pictures of his wife and daughters back in Bangalore. Rohan is our room steward, and has kept up the tradition of making towel animals.
One thing that hasn't changed is the sense of humor of the Captain. On every cruise it seems the Captain slips in jokes during the announcements. On the first day, we cracked up when we heard, "Good morning. My name is Tor, and I work here," before continuing with what we needed to know. In one port when we arrived after a very foggy night, Captain Tor announced, "Well, I wasn't sure where we were headed last night, but the port sign says Haugesund, so I guess we're in the right place."
For the first time, we have reached the level where we get into a private lounge and can have four drinks per day. We can't quite handle four drinks per day (lightweights, I know), but it's fun not to think about how expensive some of the wine is.
Ted has played pickleball almost every day, and must know half the people on the ship, so I get to meet many of them. Half the time if I'm talking to someone and Ted walks up the two of them point to each other and say, "You play pickleball!" I've been to an abs class and yoga, but it just doesn't have the same opportunity for conversations. Dinner companions are another story. A couple of nights ago we met a couple who was eighteen months into the same nomadic style we have, and last night we compared travel stories with a woman from North Carolina.
On our last night, we wandered to a lounge for a cognac, only to find a "Hush Party" going on. Everyone wears headphones and dances to music no one else can hear. We were just watching them when a young couple from Hong Kong grabbed a couple and brought them to us, laughing. After awhile, I pulled the young woman onto the dance floor and tried it myself! Neither of our partners seemed to want to try it. It was silly and lots of fun.
Needless to say, the ports have been worth (as we say) the price of admission. I expected that. But we both love sea days, and they have been as good as we remember. Seas have been calm, but somebody forgot to tell the dolphins and whales we were coming. Maybe next time.
Thursday, July 17, 2025
Rotterdam, Netherlands
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Erasmus Bridge |
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
Southampton, England
Thursday, July 10, 2025
Back to Europe...again!
Ted. After three months in Georgia, Judy and I feel as though we have accomplished most of our goals.
We checked in with all of our doctors and saw lots of family and friends - traveling as far as the state of Washington.
Son Stefan and wife Sarah have sold their house and purchased a bigger one closer to Sarah's office. They will move and get their two sons enrolled in their new school just before the new school year begins (whew!).
After 16 years as a teacher, our daughter Leslie has left the public school system and is embarking on a new adventure. Her husband Daniel continues to thrive in his job.
We couldn't be prouder of our two children, their spouses and our four grandsons and cherish time with all eight of them (plus our two grand-dogs). But, alas, it is time for Grandpa and Mami to hit the road once more.
You may recall our travails last July as we left the country with Judy in a wheelchair. Modern medicine and caring doctors have her back in tip top shape!
I am writing this post at Heathrow Airport, London where we have just arrived. After spending the night at an inexpensive airport hotel to overcome some of our jet lag (travel tip!), we will continue by train to the lovely town of Rye for a short stay with friends Harvey and Colin. Then it's on to Southampton where we board a ship for a one week cruise of the Norwegian fjords.
Upon our return to Southampton, we will immediately fly to Glasgow for three weeks of walks and wanderings in Scotland (first visit since 1977) . We then fly to Oslo for three more days in Norway.
Next will be a month in and around Lithuania followed by a month in France. Our journey ends with a repositioning cruise from Southampton to Port Canaveral, Florida. We'll be back in Georgia on November 1 for more hugs from kids and grandkids.
It's a life!
Judy. It was truly a whirlwind trip back in the US for those three months. In addition to everything Ted mentioned, I started getting involved in some organizations and protests, both to help me feel like I'm doing something to help my country, and to help me better understand and talk to others. Our church sponsors a class called "Sacred Grounds," an exploration of racism in America, which I attended. I also joined and began workshops in a group called "Braver Angels," which teaches participants how to depolarize conversations and promote better understanding--something we definitely need in our divided country. I began yoga classes at a wonderful Sangha, where the practice helped me to settle my mind. AND we got to give a party to celebrate Leslie's being named Clarke Central Teacher of the Year.
Coming back to the US is never easy for me. I love my country, but there are so many issues there for me. There are also people and organizations I love, so I'm always torn. This is something I'm working on.
But, in all honesty, I was more than ready to get on that plane. I slept better than I ever have on a transAtlantic flight, grabbed a shower and brunch in the airline lounge, and now feel ready to discover new places and settle in old ones with people we know and love. In November, I'll be renewed and ready to jump in again. But right now, here feels good, and I'm ready!