Judy. Ted’s already told you about the “A guest in the house is God in
the house” way of thinking in Poland. Let me tell you it extends far beyond the
house. As in many Slavic countries, hospitality is a way of life.
Robert’s parents,
Roman and Barbara, were in their country home for a week, so our home for our
visit in Bialystok was their apartment there. What a joy to spread out and make
ourselves comfortable! They stocked the refrigerator with homemade pickles and
jams, and there were new bags of both coffee and tea. Behind the building is a
small grocery store, so if we needed something, it was easy to buy it. Not that
we ate much more than breakfast there. Ted’s already told you about the food we
ate.
We were guests at
several high school English classes. Karolina, Robert’s sister and a guest in
our home some years ago, had us speak to classes at the private school where
she teaches, and Ania, Robert’s wife, to three classes at the public school
where she teaches. The students of English spoke well and asked informed
questions, and Ania’s Polish literature students had a fun time with us talking
about body language and playing a type of charades. We were given a book, hugs,
and high fives as we finished, as well as great memories. Helena’s class, if
you are following the blog, Hi to all of you!
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Ania's Polish Lit class |
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Karolina's group |
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Helena's class |
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Goodbye hugs and high fives |
Ania took me to
her Bollywood dance classes—she actually leads a group of dancers who perform
regularly. If you’re on Facebook, check out Bollywood Bialystok RANG to see
some of their work. The core dancers helped Ania teach us six new students, and
we all had a fantastic time. These ladies are so graceful!
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Ania's to the left of me. Can you guess the newbies? |
Piotr and Michael,
Ania and Robert’s sons, took an afternoon off from school to show us around
Bialystok, where we discovered the museum of Esperanto, museum of Siberia, and
a stunning new Opera House. This place has grown!
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Piotr & Michal, best tour guides in Bialystok! |
As he did
seventeen years ago, Robert took us to Wysokie Mazowieckie, where Ted’s
grandmother was born and grew up. There’s been quite a change in all those
years—we hardly recognized the little village we visited before. We took
candles to the cemetery to honor Ted’s grandparents, and were reminded that All
Saint’s Day in Poland and Day of the Dead in Mexico have many of the same
traditions: candles and flowers on freshly-scrubbed graves, and visits on that
evening to honor their loved ones.
A special moment
was a visit to the train station where Grandma began her journey to Chicago.
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Beginning of a long trip |
Barbara and Roman
welcomed us to their country home with food and good friends who toasted us
long into the night. Barbara took us for a walk the next morning, and after
Mass at the church where Roman grew up, they showed us the graves of his family
and let us take part in placing the candles there. They even gave Ted an extra
to put on the grave of Fr. Sokolowski, who may or may not have been part of the
family.
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Ted & Fr. Sokolowski |
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Robert, Damian, and me |
On our return to
Bialystok, we were invited by Robert’s friend Damian for a tour of the Opera
House. Damian is general manager/producer, so we had the run of the place, even
during the performance of DOCTOR ZHIVAGO! First we visited the roof garden,
with stunning views of the city, then Damien took us to the catwalk in the
flies to see the opening number, to the dressing room area (they have a cafe
for the actors!), and into the theatre to see two of the production numbers. It
was quite a lagniappe, an evening I won’t soon forget.
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View from the roof of the Opera House |
Bu wait! There’s
more! When we returned to Warsaw, a
family we met in Cambodia—yep, Monica, Andrej, and Gabi from the boat tour—picked
us up at our hotel and took us to a traditional Polish restaurant for a
delicious dinner and the chance to get caught up travels all five of us have
experienced. Monica has been following the blog and saw we were in Warsaw, so
they contacted us, which made for a fantastic evening.
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Monica, Gabi, Ted, me, and Andrej |
Yep, we were
treated royally, and feel we have family and good friends in Poland.